There’s a moment, unexpected, often quiet, but undeniable when you start to feel a shift in your energy, you’re being invited to show up differently. The old ways of doing, pushing, and endlessly giving just don’t fit any more and let’s be honest, they haven’t worked for a while.
You’re tired of holding everything and everyone. Tired of proving your worth. Of convincing people to choose you. You’re tired of living in a way that leaves your needs and happiness at the bottom of the pile. You say to yourself over and over,“There has to be another way and there must be more available for me.”
If this is where you are right now, you’re not lost and you’re not alone, you’re simply being called home to yourself. Too many of us have forgotten how to lead, live and love from our divine feminine energy. I know these are trendy words right now; everyone talks of feminine energy and tells us to let it lead, but so few are actually embodying it. Most people have no idea what it looks or feels like, so instead they stick with what they know.
Let me share some very simple ways to embody your feminine energy more:
- Slowing down and resting, even when your mind screams that it’s lazy and you feel guilty for not achieving more. You know that your worth and value is not defined by what you give and do for others.
- Saying no, without feeling the need to over-explain, because your no is the right choice for you.
- Setting loving boundaries with others because you’re finally acknowledging what feels right and aligned for you. Your body is clear on what and who is good for you and you’re ready to listen.
- Making decisions from intuition and inner knowing, instead of logic and fear. Even when there is no evidence to back you up, there is a part of you that is so sure, that you feel confident to take action.
- Letting yourself feel all of your emotions without apology and feeling like you are too much; too sensitive, too deep, too intense….
- Reclaiming your sensuality and allowing yourself to enjoy pleasure.
Embodying this energy can feel so freeing and liberating. It could also feel like, relief, contentment, peace, or a knowing that the real you is finally leading the way.
Today this is your invitation, to embody more of who you are at every level. To return to your natural state of being, the one that is been buried under years (or decades) of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and running on empty. It’s time to feel and trust deeply again and to be the woman who doesn’t need to prove, push, or earn her place any more. It’s time to shine brightly and let amazing people, opportunities and success come to you!
If embodying your feminine energy feels scary and uncomfortable and yet you can’t figure out why, then use these journal prompts to help you:
- Where in my life am I still trying to earn my worth? What might shift if I stopped?
- What parts of my feminine energy have I pushed away or denied? What am I scared might happen if I allowed myself to fully embody my feminine energy?
- If I fully trusted my intuition, what would I say yes to and what would I walk away from?
If now is the time for your own inner feminine to lead and you want some help with this, I’m here and ready.
