Does this sound like you?
You Lack Self-Identity & Don’t Trust Yourself
On paper, your life looks complete, but deep down, something is missing and that missing piece is you. You’ve lost touch with who you are, what you enjoy, and what truly matters to you. Life has drained your energy, enthusiasm, and sense of self. You tell yourself to be grateful, but the emptiness lingers, and you keep it to yourself, afraid no one will understand.
You second-guess every decision, doubting your intuition because you’ve felt wrong too many times. Seeking validation from others feels safer than trusting yourself, leaving you stuck in a cycle of over-thinking, worry, and exhaustion. Fear of making the wrong choice keeps you paralysed, avoiding big decisions and clinging to comfort, because right now, safety feels like the only option.
Burnout & Poor Physical Health
People admire how independent you are, but the constant pushing and ‘doing’ is wearing you down. It feels like there’s no choice but to keep going, trusting others feels impossible because you’ve been let down too many times. The thought of asking for help stirs up fears of weakness or failure, so you carry it all alone. The weight of responsibility is exhausting, and deep down, you know you can’t keep going like this.
You once felt strong and full of vitality, but now your body tells a different story. Aches and pains, poor sleep, immune issues, IBS, hormone imbalances, and weight fluctuations have all become your norm. Chronic stress and buried emotions are taking their toll, yet you keep searching for surface-level fixes while ignoring the mind-body connection. Your body isn’t betraying you, it’s calling you to slow down, listen, and heal.
You Crave Fun, Adventure, Excitement & Pleasure
As a sensitive soul, you know there’s more to life than what meets the eye. You’ve had beautiful fleeting moments, where you felt deeply connected to yourself and to divine energy and you want more of it. In those moments, you felt peaceful, present, and full of unconditional love. There was no doubt, no questioning, just trust in yourself and in life. But somewhere along the way, that connection faded, and you long to feel it again.
Right now, pleasure feels absent in so many areas of your life. You’ve forgotten what it feels like to truly feel alive, to wake up joyful, grateful, and excited for what’s ahead. You crave adventure, new experiences, and personal growth. Even in your most intimate relationships, you find yourself reflecting on what’s missing.
People Pleasing Is Ruining Your Life
You’ve spent so long prioritising others that asking for what you need feels pointless. Their struggles always seem more important, and you’ve lost the energy to fight for yourself. It’s easier to stay quiet than risk disappointing anyone. Deep down, you feel invisible and like your only role is to make life easier for everyone else. You tell yourself you’re fine, but the truth is, you crave support, to be heard, and for someone to finally consider you.
The fear of judgement, rejection, and abandonment keeps you stuck. When faced with big decisions, childhood fears resurface, and people-pleasing feels like the safest response. Your mind never stops over analysing every choice, driven by perfectionism and the fear of failure.